When it comes to sex, many wonder what’s considered “normal.” A recent Saucy Dates survey of 3,836 heterosexual adults aged 18-50 reveals intriguing insights into sexual duration.
What People Want vs. What They Get
Both men and women hope for longer sessions:
- Women’s ideal: 25 minutes and 51 seconds
- Men’s ideal: 25 minutes and 43 seconds
In reality, the average duration is about 15 minutes and 10 seconds, with responses ranging from less than a minute to an hour.
The “Normal” Myth
Experts like Dr. Rachel Needle emphasize that there’s no “right” length for sex. Instead of fixating on duration, focus on:
- Enjoying the experience
- Assessing your satisfaction
- Communicating with your partner
Life’s Impact on Frequency
Dr. Michael Krychman notes that various factors—like stress, new babies, or even celebrations—can influence sexual frequency and duration.
Ultimately, every couple is unique. Prioritize open communication and mutual satisfaction over societal expectations.
